Good company and environment will prove to be a milestone in getting our capability recognized

 Good company and environment will prove to be a milestone in getting our capability recognized

Let's create history by living in good company and environment and making our personality our identity

Good company and environment makes our thinking tendency and resolve to do something- It is necessary to live in good environment and company at every stage of life- Advocate Kishan Sanmukhdas Bhavani Gondia Maharashtra

Gondia - It is said about the thousands of years old Indian culture that the human form in the universe was identified from here, which evolved from monkeys to human form and the intellectual ability kept developing, the grandeur of which we are seeing at the present level that the human form has taken the world from where to where and in what digital state, that it has made a robot in the human form which is capable of doing completely human work, which is a proof of human intellectual ability.  But if we move away from this technologically advanced human and focus on developing qualities and personality at the technical level in the creator of the universe, then every human being can create a unique history at its own level, with the help of which we can take the world from one place to another. Since we are talking about the development of human qualities here, the most important quality is human personality and its company because a human walks in the footsteps of the person in whose company he lives, it does not matter where and in what condition he is born, but the company in which we live, with which people we sit and talk, what kind of environment we are living in, these form our thinking and tendency to think, which plays an important role in shaping our life, hence we have to underline the suggestion of getting out of the wrong environment and living in a good environment, if every human recognizes it in himself and molds himself in it, then he can create history himself. Therefore, today we will discuss through this article, good company and environment will prove to be a milestone in getting our ability recognized.

Friends, if we talk about human beings brought up in Indian culture, then I believe that for centuries every human being has desired that my children should make such positive progress that I should be recognized by the name of my children that he is the father of so and so! Absolutely right! That's it! For this, every person, whether male or female, parents, teachers, society, everyone should have the same goal that is to improve the personality of their children and take care to keep them in the right company because every child is like an uncut stone in which a beautiful statue is hidden, which the eyes of the sculptor can see. He can carve it and turn it into a beautiful statue. Because the statue is already present in the stone, the sculptor just moves the extra stone in which the statue is covered, to one side and the beautiful statue appears. Parents, teachers and society groom the child in this way and provide him a beautiful personality. It is important to inculcate the rules of values ​​for building a good personality in children.  Therefore, first of all we should identify ourselves by adopting wisdom, patience, high thinking, control over anger, truthfulness and transparency in children or in ourselves which can be achieved by keeping the child in a good environment.

Friends, if we talk about our personality, every person has his own personality. That is the identity of a person. Even in a crowd of millions of people, he will be recognized due to his unique personality. This is his specialty, this is his personality. It is the law of nature that the shape of one person is different from the other. This innate difference in the shape is not limited to the shape only; the same disparity remains in his nature, sanskar and his tendencies also. Heredity and environment are the two main elements in personality development. Heredity provides innate powers to a person. Environment provides him with facilities to achieve these powers. Social environment has a strong influence on the personality of a child. As the child develops, he imbibes the style of the society or community in which he grows up and the qualities of that person leave a deep impression on the personality.

Friends, all children live in different circumstances. In order to form their attitude towards those circumstances, they learn a lot from their parents who have different characters. They also learn from their teachers or friends. But whatever they see or hear, they cannot accept everything. All of it is so contradictory that it is not possible to accept it. Before accepting, they have to choose. They have to decide for themselves which qualities are acceptable and which are unacceptable. This right to choose also gives the child the right to self-determination. Every person has a different reaction to the same incident. Many young people living together go through the same circumstances, but each young person sees those circumstances from a different perspective, he has different reactions in his mind. These reactions help us in forming our viewpoint of life. We are our own masters, we make our own character. If this does not happen, there will be no struggle in life;  Circumstances themselves should shape our character, our life should become a slave of external events like a puppet. Fortunately this is not the case. Man is his own master. He shapes his character himself. For character-building he does not need to make circumstances favorable or strong but he needs to use the power of self-determination.

Friends, if we talk about our own initiative in personality development, then always tell yourself! I can do it, this is for me. This encourages us to move forward in life. Along with this, it increases self-respect and also enhances the personality. Another biggest task to bring good personality development in yourself is to change your worldview. Listen to others carefully and give your suggestions or answers on the basis of your mind. Complete your decisions on your own because following or taking steps on the decisions of others is the reason for failure. Whether it is our words or our actions, having positive thinking everywhere is very important for good personality development. Our way of thinking decides how and to what extent we will be able to complete our work. Positive thoughts increase self-confidence and enhance personality. Many types of ups and downs come in life but a person with positive thinking always sees the right path with the right perspective. Being a good listener is very difficult but it is an important step in personality development.  Whenever somebody talks to us, we should listen to and understand what they say carefully and focus our full attention on their words.

Keep company of saints, it will never go in vain., Even when iron is ground into a philosopher's stone, it will become gold., Kabir says, keep company of saints, one should eat barley husk., You will get kheer, sugar and food but will not go with the saint.,

So if we study and analyze the above details, we will find that good company and environment will prove to be a milestone in getting our capabilities recognized. Let's create history by making our personality our identity by staying in good company and environment. Good company and environment makes our thinking tendency and resolve to do something- It is important to stay in good environment and company at every stage of life.

 *-Compiler Author - Qar expert columnist literary writer international writer thinker poet music medium CA(ATC) Advocate Kishan Sanmukhdas Bhavnai Gondia Maharashtra* 9284141425